piraterick ([info]piraterick) wrote,
@ 2008-12-02 22:28:00
Previous Entry  Add to memories!  Tell a Friend!  Next Entry
It is on, little sis'.
Sometimes I learn what I'm going to be doing this week by reading my wife's LJ page. Which is wierd, but also, very effective. I have a place to look back. I actually get a weekly email saying what she's going to be doing, but I leave my personal life such a mess, I could never compile such an email. This week, on Thursday, the Des Moines Junior Chamber will be electing their 2009 officers. As the outgoing president, I'll have the position of Chairman of the Board, which means, no responsibility/authority except to attend board meetings and be bored. If I don't take some other office, that will give me back a super amount of time back. I find as the end of the year draws near, and my term expires, I look forward to it more and more.
On the other hand, there are a number of jobs in the Jaycees I'd still like to do, so who knows.

Then on Saturday, we (the Des Moines Jaycees) take 40 underprivileged (I hate that euphemism) kids shopping to buy gifts for their families, which we call the "Holiday Shopping Tour." If doing that doesn't lift your spirits, you might be a scrooge. At the end, we give all the Kids a present to keep, since they just bought something for everyone in their family. Earlier this year, while I was working the door of the Haunted House, one of guys in the line asked me what we did with the money from the House, and I told him one of the things was the Holiday Shopping Tour. He said he had done that when he was a kid, and started telling me what he bought each of his family members, and he asked me if the woman who went shopping with him, whose name he knew, was still a member. (Which she wasn't.) It's neat to see that someone touched this kid's life one day enough for him to remember their name more than a decade later, and it probably didn't cost more than $50. Moments like that make me really glad I don't work with (cringe) underprivileged kids anymore. Doing it professionally sucks all the fun out of it.



(Post a new comment)


[info]celtic_catgirl
2008-12-03 05:15 am UTC (link)
I think to a certain extent at least it doesn't carry the same connotation as at-risk even though they mean somewhat different things some people use the terms interchangeably...

(2/31 way to go!)

(Reply to this) (Thread)


[info]piraterick
2008-12-04 01:54 am UTC (link)
I think I like "disadvantaged" best, because I think it's more accurate, but people aren't always clear on what you mean. Why can't we just say "poor" and accept the nasty truth that our society isn't providing equal opportunity to all. I think at risk also covers a nasty truth, ussually that some kids won't graduate from high school, but again we're trying to cover an ugly truth behind the euphimism.


(Reply to this) (Parent)(Thread)


[info]mooshka
2008-12-05 06:44 am UTC (link)
Can't we say "impoverished".
Let's just say the fucking truth. It's how it is. Have you seen the levels of childhood hunger this year? 30% (or something a little higher) of children in single mother households are not getting "Enough food".
"Enough food". Let alone a Leap Frog or a new winter coat.
"Underprivileged" indicates that they are still privileged to some degree.
And yeah. I guess that are. Privileged that they don't live in the middle of a desert where they are lucky if they don't get raped by some idiot who thinks it will cure his aids if they even live through the week without dying of dehydration. But how is that a privilege.
Don't get me started on government euphemisms and they way they tend to hide the shit of the situation so that some poor suburban soccer mom can get her weekly pedicure and not have to think about how even half of that money (or the hour she's sitting her ass in that chair doing volunteer work instead) can help.... I should lay off posting when I'm sick.

(Reply to this) (Parent)


[info]mooshka
2008-12-05 06:38 am UTC (link)
Dude. You're so awesome.

And on the first paragraph, I'm a mess too. This is my next 7 days.
Tomorrow, go meet Chris at his house, have lunch, go shoot a film. Sunday, Monday, who effin knows. Tuesday class from noon to 3. From that till next Tuesday, who effin knows.
And that's WITH the god that is my google calendar.

(Reply to this)


Create an Account
Forgot your login or password?
Login w/ OpenID
English • Español • Deutsch • Русский…